Interesting perception.

I find this true untill a certain degree.

Sometimes past experiences require to be presented not for the person themself, but as per sketch towards someone who could benefit from listening or trying to envision certain aspects of that past presented.

You are correct when this refers to an person with a fixed mindset using their past to evoke feelings from others (attention seekers or victim players) Not when one uses the past to elevate others.

Nevertheless, great read man.

Thanks!