Where to aim your questions, is a great sub-skill to learn. It's not all that easy.

We are constantly calibrating the way how we think, what we believe, and what we chase.

The more we do this by asking questions the more those answers seem to guide us in the correct direction. (At least, this is how I experienced that)

Reading books from authors like "Tim Ferriss" for instance are also very helpful.

"Tools of Titans," and "Tribe of Mentors" were two books which helped me a lot.